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How to never be intimidated by people?

You see some guy and he's got more muscles than you, he's got more friends than you, he's got more girls than you, more charisma than you, more money than you, ... you get the point.
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>>34304875
RETARDMAXX. I stopped caring about all that now.
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>>34304875
u get intimidated of those people cuz u add value to those things, convert to buddhism and stop desiring anything
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>>34304894
>stop desiring anything
That's like telling me to grow wings and fly like a bird. Um...????
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>>34304925
desire peace
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>>34304875
You're just being a surface level fag. The guy with muscles? He could be a pedo. The person with more friends? Well they raped someone once. More girls? Well he just kept fucking gutter bitches till he settled with a hambeast.

Stop looking at shit and thinking that person is the peak of human living.
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>>34304875
if there is someone you are jealous of, you should try to befriend them and learn by just being around them and observing their behavior. just don't be a fuckin sperg ab it
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>>34304953
What you’re doing is literally the definition of cope.

>dude mogs you in every conceivable way
>”well he probably did something bad at some point. I win!”

Remove morality from the equation. A similar but much better alternative is to make sure you’re maxed out on a few keys areas so that you’re always mogging in some area. Is a guy bigger than you? Well at least you know how to play guitar. Is he better at musical instruments than you? At least you’d kick his ass.
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>>34304953
>You're just being a surface level fag. The guy with muscles? He could be a pedo. The person with more friends? Well they raped someone once
You were supposed to bring up bad things they did, not good
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>>34305064
*looks at you with suspicious eyes*
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>>34304997
No you cope faggot. What I'm saying is that comparing yourself to a person is pointless because what you see isnt always what's there or even the true person. every person has skeletons so to think a random on the street is just mogging you in life makes you a retard self absorbed whiny faggot, kinda like you and OP. Only an inept retard would see another man and get jealous rather than steering his own ship.
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>>34304875
Just have something that you can be proud of and you’ll stop comparing yourself to others.

I know many people who have more muscles, money, and charism than me, but I don’t feel ashamed of myself. I have a job that I do well so I am well appreciated there. Because of that, I can hold my head up high in the presence of others. I can acknowledge the superiority of others in their respective attributes and compliment them on it and at the same time I can proudly talk about what I am good at and have them return the compliments.
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>>34304875
who gives a shit. why would any of that intimidate me? if someone's drunk and pulling a knife out, sure, there's reason to feel danger. but just living? that doesn't do anything

>>34304997
>What you’re doing is literally the definition of cope.
>>dude mogs you in every conceivable way
>>”well he probably did something bad at some point. I win!”
there's no cope, there's no feeling to suppress. i walk past a 6'8" guy, nothing happens. i walk past a millionaire or some politician with power, doesn't move the needle.

if you can't walk past people more fortunate than you without having a bad feeling you need cope for, you're the one with a pathological issue.
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>>34304875
You can stop being intimidated by other men when you realise that the man you are intimidated by either:
>Isn't trying to be intimidating
>Has no idea he appears as intimidating, has no idea you find him intimidating

I've been told I come off as intimidating as a man and I am really not trying to come off as that way, I'm just a grumpy guy with the male equivelant of resting bitch face and resting bitch voice. In actuality I'm not a hard man on the inside, I'm probably more intimidated by the one intimidated by me. Because intimidated people are like dogs in a corner, they snap eventually or something. Intimidation is subjective as fuck OP. You'd be surprised how wacky it gets when you try to see things from the other PoV

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