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>>34601123
I have no idea man. Personally, I honestly think it'd be too awkward for me to handle.
On one hand I wouldn't want to offend the dude if he is decent, but on the other, it's just way too uncomfortable of a situation for me, so I guess I'd just slowly stop hanging around in person.
But that's just me, do what you judge is right.
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>>34601123
Your friend is turned on by pretending to be a woman. It's called autogynephilia, and that's what most of this "trans" stuff actually is. I would stop hanging out with a person like this. He's probably going to rape a child someday.
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>>34601123
talk to your friend. you're respecting their feelings and allowing them to be who they are around you, so they should give you the same attention and respect. maybe you can come to a compromise or an understanding. or maybe you can't. but you should talk about it.
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>>34601123
I've an uneasy feeling there's no good way out of this one. If you say you don't want people thinking you and she are together, then you're basically saying that you want to indulge other people's transphobia. Your friend could reasonably say "Well, obviously I'm not attracted to you and you're not attracted to me, but if we were attracted to each other, why *shouldn't* we be together? Why would anyone have a problem with that? Why would *you* have a problem with that? Obviously if someone sees a man and a woman together they might think they're a couple - why is that a problem?" And I don't think you have a good answer to that.
That said, I don't think you have any choice but to bite the bullet and ask her. You're clearly not going to be comfortable being friends with her the way things are going, so it's that or stop being friends. I think you need to resign yourself to the fact that there isn't a big way to bring it up, and bring it up anyway.
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OP don't tell her that. It's gonna really upset her and cost you your friendship with her. She'll think you're being transphobic. So you gotta decide if people giving you weird looks is enough to lose this friend over.
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>>34601707
>If you say you don't want people thinking you and she are together, then you're basically saying that you want to indulge other people's transphobia
no you're not.. if you told a cis woman or a cis ma that you dont want people to think you're together it could be for all sorts of reasons. it could just be because you're single and dont want other potential partners to get the wrong idea.
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