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>>43812161
this isn’t current (as you can tell by “today” being a tuesday) i just was looking through my pictures for something to add to the OP. right now it’s thankfully tolerable, 74 F with 49% humidity, getting up to like 90 degrees / 25% humidity in the afternoon
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>>43812509
why jeans and a t? if you’re gonna dress more warmly than the weather demands to boymode, shouldn’t it be more on top than bottom? i know when it was feasible i was wearing a hoodie with shorts to try not to sweat as bad as a hoodie and jeans would be
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>>43815945
Pretty much >>43815976
Jannies constantly deleting thread, moving to discord and leaving the board all combined
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>>43809751
I'm just thugging that shit out, it was like 90° at work today and I about had a heatstroke and my hair looks garbo but I still malefailed with about 70% customers
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>>43816183
Yup I've been wearing heavy clothes to hide the fact I don't wear bras.
I still get gendered female even with my male voice and been asked if I'm trans a few times by colleagues.
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>>43816263
Uhh make sure your levels are good, I get mine checked every 3 months. Lose weight if you've got a fem skeleton gain weight if you're big boned. Get your eyebrows threaded, that shit is like 15 bucks and helps a ton. Have a skincare routine and take care of your hair. Also I had an eating disorder as a teenager that stunted my growth which is helping a ton but I guess if you're here already that ship has probably sailed. Fix your posture!
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>>43816352
levels were high the only time i checked. my weight has kinda been the same plus or minus like 8 pounds the whole time ive been on hrt. i try to take care of my hair, and i get compliments from some people i know irl on it, but 4chan says it looks like shit and i agree. do eyebrow threading places do the same shit for everyone, or do i have to tell them i’m a tranny for them to look femme? skin care i need to get back on, i was unemployed so i didn’t bother restocking, but i’ve had a job long enough that it’s on me to get back to it. and unfortunately, i’m 5’11
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>>43816433
So I live in a pretty liberal area and it's not really much of a problem, I just kinda tell them what my deal is over the phone and schedule an appointment to have them done up pretty fem.
I think even in a more conservative area you should still be fine beauticians are rarely like bible thumpers or terfs.
Skin is a pretty big one, if you glow people tend to read you female more often than not
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my town is a bit conservative but my wider area is very progressive, so i shouldn’t have an issue finding someone who won’t hate crime me, i just have brainworms about asking to be treated like a woman in anyway while obviously not passing. it’s the same reason i’ve been just trimming my own hair for the last few years, i want to actually get a woman’s haircut, but even to someone who likes trans people, asking for it while looking like a man feels like something i shouldn’t do. it’s like i need to already pass to take any steps towards girlmoding, which is obviously ridiculous
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>>43816557
You probably pass better than you think nona, I'm just kind of getting used to the idea that I look pretty estrogenized now. The combination of dysphoria and also seeing yourself in the mirror every day can make it hard to pick up on. How long have you been on the 'mones?
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>>43816625
over a year and a half on e. i’ve properly malefailed like 3 times in that time, and two of those times they corrected themselves upon actually seeing my face. i did get asked my pronouns after being asked my name once, so that half counts, but it was more likely “i know this place is crawling with trannies, you might be one some direction” imo. the two times i’ve given a stranger my chosen name instead of my deadname they didn’t give me any shit at least, but again, it was in super progressive areas and situations so might’ve just been humoring the hon. honestly, just looking in the mirror and shit i don’t think i’m that doomed, but my lived experience is what tells me to mode. i malefailed more in middle school than i do now on estrogen lol
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>>43816698
How's your voice? Do you talk with a fagcent?
Also it could be you need a bit of ffs which isnt the end of the world, idk how close you live to the northeast but most states require insurance to pay for it here so it's within reach.
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>>43816740
the voice sucks, i can’t lie. i’m really inconsistent with voice training to begin with, and when i did musicals in high school and college i struggled to hit the bass’s high notes so i’ve got a terrible base. but i do get plenty of sirs before i even open my mouth. i haven’t really noticed any improvements in malefailing when i do actually try to deploy my “girlvoice” too
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>>43818651
My bf wants to go to a stav show and get crowdworked really bad but I kinda don't want to be picked on